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Anal sex can be an enjoyable experience for both the husband and the wife, provided it done properly and safely. It’s common for many married couples to be curious especially when it comes to anal sex. For the wife, a lot of questions may run on her mind such as “will it hurt?” “is it safe and hygienic?” and more importantly, “will I enjoy it?” Husbands, on the other hand must make sure to find ways for the wife first anal sex to be an enjoyable experience for the both of them. Here are some guides couple can follow when having anal sex for the first time.
First off, both the husband and the wife should be aware of some safety and hygienic issues when it comes to anal sex. Always remember that whatever goes inside the wife’s anus, it should not touch anything else. For instance, once the husband’s penis goes to the wife’s anus, it should never go to the mouth or vagina as this could result to some serious complications and other kinds of infections. Keep in mind that anal sex can also cause sex diseases like STDs, AIDS, herpes, genital warts, syphilis and gonorrhea which is why it is a must to use condoms for the wife’s first anal sex. Partners should always follow some simple yet effective precautions like changing condoms after any anal sex and washing the body thoroughly. Also, the wife should have a good and complete bowel movement. Consuming fruits rich in fiber before having anal sex would be ideal. But if in a hurry, couples can purchase an enema available at most drugstores.
Once both sides are fully aware of the implications of a safe and hygienic anal sex, the next thing to consider would be the use of lube. The anus is definitely different from a vagina in several ways. For one, an anus does not lubricate on its own unlike a vagina that can get wet. To make the wife’s first anal experience less painful and more enjoyable, the husband would need to lube up his penis before the insertion. Any type of lube would be ok. But for safety and hygienic purposes, it would be best to get a high-quality water based lubricants available at most drug stores and pharmaceutical stores.
Since this would be the wife’s first anal sex experience, make sure to start small and slow. Husbands should avoid the temptation of initially inserting their penis especially if it is erect. This can bring a lot of pain and discomfort during and even after the anal sex. Start by using one finger then gradually switching two fingers and so forth. Again, make sure the wife’s anus is very much lubricated and the husband’s fingers are well trimmed. For an extra thrill, perform some oral sex as this can increase the wife’s sex drive which would make her feel at ease while the fingers penetrate the anus. Once the wife gets used to the fingers insider her anus, you can switch using some sex toys like dildos or butt plugs. Once again, any sex toys or devices inserted on the anus should never be used to the vagina unless it is thoroughly cleaned and disinfected. If there are no sex toys available, have the husband’s penis slowly enter the wife’s anus. At this point, husbands should watch the wife for any reactions. If she moans, the husband can proceed. But if she shows any signs of pain, immediately remove the penis and allow her to rest a bit.
There are other techniques married couples can follow to make the wife’s first anal adventure a pleasant one. All it takes is constant practice and always use lots of lubricants.
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